According to studies by Google, empathy fosters effective collaboration, more inclusive attitudes, and happier employees. Workers who view their organizations as empathetic often have increased morale and less stress, reducing turnover as a result.
Empathy also helps create better leaders. With an empathetic mindset informing their management style, leaders can provide constructive feedback while addressing employees’ needs in a way that helps people grow.
While a common concept, empathy still faces quite a few misunderstandings. Some feel like the skill is unattainable or difficult to hone — which has sparked a few myths around empathy.
Here are three myths Jamil Zaki debunked:
Myth #1: Empathy is a trait
Fact: Empathy is a mindset, not a personality trait. And empathy is something we can continue to hone — similar to working out and growing a muscle, you can grow your capacity for caring and understanding.
Myth #2: We can tell what our colleagues are going through
Fact: In the workplace in particular, our empathy muscles can atrophy when people rise to power. Leaders often attain the positions they have because they can understand and connect with people, yet by being in that position they can also lose a sense of empathy. To solve this paradox, leaders need to not only imagine someone else’s reality, they also need to learn about someone else’s reality.
Myth #3: Empathy is a solo sport
Fact: People tend to copy the positive behaviors of those around them. Empathy is no exception, which means it lives on through an organization’s culture rather than a single person. When empathy becomes a social norm, people are that much more motivated to be empathetic, generating noticeable, widespread kind behavior.